Families going through a separation or divorce often face an overwhelming amount of stress, particularly when trying to figure out what the future looks like for their children.
It is completely natural to want to shield your children from the details of the breakup. However, research consistently shows that children cope much better with family changes when they feel their voices are heard.
This is where Child Inclusive Mediation can make a profound difference.
What is Child Inclusive Mediation?
Child Inclusive Mediation is a specialist process where a specially trained mediator that is accredited through the Family Mediation Council, talks directly with your child, giving them a private and safe space to share their thoughts, feelings, and wishes about the future.
It is important to understand that this is not about asking your child to choose between parents or make adult decisions. Instead, it offers them a chance to express what is important to them, such as how they feel about school, weekends, or staying in touch with extended family.
How Does the Process Work?
The process only happens if both parents agree, and if the child wants to participate. No child is ever forced to take part.
The mediator meets with the child individually. This conversation is completely confidential, meaning the mediator will not share anything the child says unless the child explicitly gives permission. Afterwards, the mediator meets back up with the parents to feed back the child’s wishes, helping the adults to make co-parenting decisions with their child’s perspective clearly in mind.
Accessing the Service in Kent
Finances should never be a barrier to doing what is best for your family. At Kent Family Mediation, we offer Legally Aided funded mediation services to those who qualify.
If you are eligible for Legal Aid, the entire mediation process, including the individual sessions with your child, could be completely free of charge.
Even if only one parent qualifies for legal aid, the cost of the initial assessment and the first joint mediation session is covered for both parties.
In addition, if you are in mediation and not eligible, discussing children, we can apply for a voucher of £500 to go towards the cost of your mediation, which means that you can have three free sessions.
By choosing this path, you can reduce conflict, avoid the high costs of family court, and ensure your children remain at the very heart of every decision you make.
If you live in Kent and would like to find out if you qualify for Legal Aid, or if you want to learn more about how Child Inclusive Mediation can support your family, please reach out to our team today.
Start the process and make a referral through our website at https://kentfms.co.uk/make-a-referral/make-a-mediation-referral/ or phone us on 01795 410457 to book a separate mediation information meeting or MIAM.